… Relationship Violence … Relationship Violence … What is it? If a person is using relationship violence against someone, it … or actually physically, emotionally, or sexually abusing another person. They do this in order to maintain power and control over their partner. Relationship violence can also occur between same-gender partners. Is my partner using … is very jealous. You have been afraid to say no to sex. Your partner becomes violent after drinking. Your partner tries to control the way you dress, and/or who you see. Your partner has hit, shoved, grabbed, slapped, pushed or kicked you. Even if …